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Sex Change 4 U? March 25, 2010
Love needs an open freedom of sex.  Suppress sex and love is suppressed. Love that doesn’t flow freely and deeply has behind it blocks in sexual energy. Allowing love to happen, sex will rise even if it remains in the shadows. ‘I love you’s’ should have deep meaning otherwise they become just gestures of friendship with no ‘backup meaning’. I love you’s should have visceral meaning beyond empty words.

Sex without love is filled with repressed fears. Stopping before an overwhelming feeling of love, is to hide repressed fears that might expose vulnerability. Sex without the vulnerability of love is no more than on the level of animals. Someone may fake it but fear is hidden in the energy and in that fear, energy is reversed to covered up anger.  Sex flows easily to love, and blocking it merely cloaks a volcano of negativity that will erupt when least expected.

Let the sexual energy flow naturally to the heart of love.  When the heart is left out people are merely using each other for masturbation.  Not that the use of each other is bad, it just doesn’t create a full flow of love and caring energy of compassion.  People are more than objects to satisfy ones primal urges which on that level merely hides a ‘using mind’ that blocks and suppresses all real concern for the other. Sex flowing uninhibited opens the channels of love.  Any resistance creates a conditional love void of any real commitment.

All but a few in life are left to finish out their life with obstructed love that began early on and, settles in as the ‘status quo’.  Meditation or a ‘sex change in looping patterns’ can happen at any age with a healthy, positive mindset.  Stuck sexual energy always manifests itself in a myriad of outward and inward effects. Anger, abuse, fears, self loathing and destructiveness are likely the result of suppressed sexuality which translates in an inability to be loving. Sexuality issues leave one on ‘crutches with love’.
Change the outer and inner ways of living with a strong sense of awareness.
Arhata

Kissing Meditation

March 24, 2010
Deep kissing is meditation.  All religions and spiritual nudniks who in the long past have not given any form of raising consciousness that has anything to do with love (‘NOT ACCORDING TO THEIR OPINIONS’), have destroyed the rise of humankind from it’s grave of suffering.  Be it the ‘make believe celibacy’ of the Catholic church or any other religious organization practice under the auspices of God’s direction, are all full of unadulterated smelly crap!

Until recently, and now only in the liberal sects of Christianity, have they let up on putting the verdict of ‘fire and eternal hell’ in minds for anything trespassing their subjective borders of what’s right or wrong. Young people are very impressionable and susceptible to erroneous rhetoric from those in positions of appearing to speak for God. Islam threatens death to those who don’t follow the ‘rules of love’ even though they’ve made them up. Even the so called ‘gurus from India’ almost exclusively, have nothing to say from experience on matters of love between two people.  All of them just don’t know, and are brainwashed themselves!

Unknowingly in my first teen years, I discovered one of the great unrecognized forms of meditation – kissing.  For reason that came natural, I as many others in the Western world, somehow knew when to ‘draw a line’ with sexual exploration for good purpose, instead electing to focus on acceptable safer forms of love’s expressions.  Never did I have a clue about this thing called meditation or clearing the mind into awareness. Quite naturally my instincts led to use common sense in romantic ways that needed to be kept from the sight of adults, but was sensitive to nature’s surprises of ‘continuing the species’.

For those years I would spend more hours than I could count in embrace of a girl with kissing that moved all thoughts into another realm of ecstasy. The  back dark row in the movie theater was a good 2 1/2 hour opportunity as some movie played much to our obliviousness. Anywhere an opportunity of being alone was filled with kissing and hugging. Only an intense other type of meditation could possibly create the bliss of divine nirvana that happened. Kisses sweeter than the finest wine lasting longer than it normally takes to drink a glass of it were favored!  Many beautiful experiences were discovered not without noticing that ‘white lies’ took on a new reason to use for members of either family!  Kissing and hugging opens the heart and consciousness above the waistline of meditation! Deep kissing clearly opens a merging with the stars and divine godliness!

Inner Fattie

March 23, 2010
Outer fat people are far more beautiful than they regard themselves. There is ‘invisible fat’ inside most people consisting of ‘clogged perceptions’ of who they really are, and how others view them as.  Being one with a ‘lean inner’, I have found over the years that those with a ‘fat inner and outer’ send out few vibrations of attraction.  On the other hand, those with outer attractiveness often depend on that for attention from others, but not uncommonly are ‘fat inside’ with fears and consequent mixed emotions about themselves and others.

Nearly all the world population is living under illusion or false perception of the qualities or lack thereof that they individually possess. All humans have the seeds of near perfection or real self love.  Most seeds within go unnoticed, and not given the attention they need to grow into the qualities that everyone has that all equate to ‘love’.  Buddha is always seen laughing because when he saw the truth of everyone’s illusion, it brought him sorrow, and at the same time what could he do but laugh at how people lived in the outer.
Buddha saw the suffering that people wore inside and out, but knew each was seconds away from the real answer that would begin to release them from the suffering that gets passed on for thousands of years. Seek the laughter of consciousnes

The ‘inner fat’ is nothing more that an accumulation of repeated barriers to seeing oneself clearly.  The secret is to clear all hindrances within even if it means forgiving what and whomever needs to be forgiven for inciting the dark spaces that only grow keeping out the light of consciousness and bliss.  Loving oneself forever is more important than any goal of the outer world.

The outer is often pursued with vigor as a way to ignore and avoid the pains, unresolved issues, and ignorance of the nirvana within. With little attention to the inner there is a void in the collaboration of the inner meeting the outer of you, and those you really want to connect with.  These are very new times for the communication of love and compassion that has been so unattended in centuries past.  The past is best to remember for what not to repeat while the future is filled with divine godliness for those who awaken in their hearts.
Arhata

Women are Perverts

March 22, 2010
Never men!? Women create all wars?  Perversion is to create activity that is ‘self serving’ often at the expense of another, however perhaps the best sex in mutual agreement is ‘perverted sex’ ironically!  Men generally think of sex more than anything else, it’s always a question of ‘how’.  Females are typically much more conservative in sexual thoughts and action with few exceptions.  Females are more controlled by guilt primarily from religious dogma and male domination.

In a balanced world both male and female have equal opportunities for healthy sex. The world has perpetually been skewed out of balance toward men’s freedoms, be they far less than most men appreciate.  Women continue to be controlled by men perverting sex and love to suit their needs first.  Both the male and female through out the world today are still immature in all matters of sex and love.  Empathy and compassion can never be short of all concerns for the other.  Sensitivity and discernment is what separates humans from the animal who is programmed to continue the species at all cost.

Women are the ‘protectors of love’ and the possessors of the secrets of love.  In actuality, few men or women spend their life focused on love of another unconditionally.  Life is rarely black and white but different shades of gray.  Circumstances and viewpoints are always to be considered, but harmony is the healthy way. You have to decide what is good for your life without interference in another’s life or allowing them to interfere in your life. There are few absolutes in life as life is relative.  Whatever you feel is right, always considering the other, do it.

The ‘golden rule’ is always best to follow, ‘Do unto others what you would have them do unto you’, with my added consideration to not hurt anyone else (some pervert the ‘golden rule’ to serve them)!  Now that we are slowly emerging from the morality shackles of the ancient world into greater wisdom and freedom for all, it’s the moment to always go toward the light that best exposes harmony in all facets of life and love.  Time is love!  Take the time to love and merge the two while the opportunity waits. Anything else, is to pervert the fulfillment of love’s mysteries and beauties! Give time to love and love will give the best time.
Arhata

Misjudge Dorker
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March 20, 2010
Foot-in-mouth syndrome doesn’t always work especially when the gun in the pocket accidentally ‘misjudges’ and shoots one in the foot. Jumping to conclusions without seeing the facts is a situation we’ve all found ourselves in on occasion, however it’s a bad habit that breaks up families, loved ones, and friends.  Think before speaking, or judging is always a good mantra.

The eyes and tongue are often clouded by the ‘mind of judgment’ be it from fear, paranoia, lack of discernment or just plain seeing through ones unresolved issues. ‘Quick as a fox’ doesn’t take into account that the fox may encounter more than just chickens guarding the hen house.  Smart is often a subjective stalemate of the mind bolstered by the arrogant ego that needs to take itself to the woodshed. It’s never too late to do a turn around, but taking the foot out of the mouth that spoke without clear thinking and compassion for keeping peace on the farm, frequently finds itself mired in a high wired barrier to recover the damage done to an innocent situation.

Misjudging is really a ‘self inflicted wound’ that can end up creating a wound or disabling an otherwise peaceful coexistence.  It’s been said that one mishap can spoil a hundred rights, but particularly when there is not adequate self love on one or both sides.  It’s easy to make a nice soup but easier to spoil it with one mistaken ingredient.  To see when one has misjudged, and correcting the possible damage, takes courage that is not necessarily in plentiful supply. It’s best to not put oneself in a position where the supply of courage is low.  Empathy and putting one’s self in the others shoes, is a quality that will avoid ‘unthought out’ miscues.

Misjudgments proliferate among work, friends, family, acquaintances and anywhere and everywhere, even with animals, plants, or the weather.  Harmony in families is particularly sacred as they are the very foundation of life, however it’s common for one or more family members to throw an ax into the relationship hurting others and making it nearly impossible to recover. Family members who damage the harmony by not taking responsibility for initiating the fizzier, are never free of the karma of damage.  In marriages, both are responsible for repairing any doors closed, and opening them. Life and love are about finding the self love within to better see and address responsibility for all misjudgments. LIght a candle in the darkness to see the light of what is. Uncork the dork of blindness!
Arhata

Unqualified for Love

March 19, 2010
Defensive ego’s that likely will never be qualified for love are stuck in the ‘sheeple pen’ of going no where but butting their heads against the self imposed gates rather than being like the sheep in dreams that ‘jump over the fence’ into freedom. Many wonderful people are also only equipped to function in survivable relationships that don’t break any records of ‘how to live and love best’. If ‘cookie’ relationships are your cup of tea as desirable, that’s a choice.

Few regard deep love as a quest, or a common way of acceptable living.  The majority are qualified to be good pet owners, bill payers, fishermen, nice neighbors, say ‘hi to people’ and so forth. Over the years, out of thousands I’ve met, less than a handful  exude love of themselves and the consequent ability to have unlimited love with another. Also rare jewels, are ones who have a relentless passion to uncover the love within them for themselves. People tend to find comfort in being uncomfortable with accepting themselves and the love-hate relationship they have manifested.

People continue being like sheeple fenced in to ‘graze’ and, unconsciously wait for their ‘shearing’ by the world.  Never do they take seriously the opportunity to lose the fear of ‘sheep jumping over the fence’.  Freedom of love really starts with letting go of all the ‘masks’ that are easily accepted as barriers by society and belief systems.  To continue being ‘fenced in’ with ‘do’s and don’ts’ of love is to remain unqualified to venture into the unknown treasures of how deep love can grow, and beyond.

Throwing the one quality that changes life for the better against a wall, is to endlessly question the value of life and it’s hidden meanings.  Looking for gold in the desert or in a dark forest with ‘hopes and dreams’ of finding it, is to fuel endless depression and false hope.  Love is gold but, much more plentiful yet elusive while being in other ‘zones or frequencies’ of priorities.  Love is too precious to be given to just anyone who doesn’t love themselves.  Glimpses of love are ‘carrots’ to remind one that it’s there.  Reality is, one has to be qualified and, that means opening the heart with no fears!
Arhata

SexMaking

March 18, 2010
Having sex and ‘making love’ are two distinctly different acts.  The first can be done by any Joe and Mary, or Jerry and Bruce in a moments notice. With mutual consent, the world needs more of it, but without the consequences that are undesired.  Sex in the imagination is a natural and healthy thing.  Love in the imagination is transformative. Sex is the ‘doorway’ to higher states of consciousness but for those who just stand in the doorway with little vision of what lies in front of their ‘self greed’.

Celibacy is for the impotent at best!  There is no heaven for the ‘celibate’ but a ‘liars prison’ for using it’s claim as an opportunity to ‘enslave others minds’, or put themselves on a pedestal of hot air.  We still live in a world where there is tremendous fear of sex often sent out into the air by unconscious repressions which amount to insecurities that haven’t been let go of. Society, largely represented by politicians and religions, seeks to create every means possible to keep control.  Fear of death and sex are the primary tools. Both fears have infinite ways of being ‘put out’ for mass results of the populace.

There is no record of any enlightened person ever being impotent.  The ‘enlightened’, if anything, were too much sexual and, had the discernment to see that there was more to inner fulfillment. They experienced it through and through, so much so that they began to question if there was more leading them to the road of self realization or enlightenment. Often the so called enlightened began (begin) to see themselves as ‘avatars’ of wisdom but in fact, really put perfume and spin on their ‘hotdogging’ for the pleasure of having others listen to them.

Unenlightened people (including the false ‘enlightened’) can only have sexual relationships which they call ‘making love’. They should stop calling it ‘making love’ and call it the truth, ‘making sex’! Only an enlightened person can really ‘make love’ because there is no need to ‘make sex’. An ‘enlightened person can go any length of time, even years, without the need for sex, but they can enjoy it for fun!

I can play cards; it is not a need. I can drink once in a while; it did not disturb my enlightenment, nothing did. I can make love. My enlightenment was not made of such fragile matter; it cannot be disturbed by anything. But it can disturb some people’s idea of enlightenment. That is their business. In fact, they are perpetually wondering if enlightened people transcend sex? My answer is that the enlightened person transcends enlightenment too.  I found it interesting but, boring. Convert sex making to love making!
Arhata

Mom was a Virgin

March 17, 2010
No problem …  I still made it! Most women remain virgins as do even more men.  Physical is only one dimension of being ‘virgin’, and even that is now a possible situation to give physical virgin birth with ‘sperm banks’ (Sorry, Mary, but it’s no longer a big thing to give birth and call yourself a ‘virgin Emily or Jennifer’).  Be one a prostitute, playboy, nymphomaniac, or father or mother of 10, likely one is, and will remain a virgin in the ‘spiritual sense’, of deep self love, while avoiding transcending beyond attachments of the physical.

To lose ‘spiritual virginity’ means something entirely different than in the physical sense.
It’s to enter into a place forever beyond the mind and physical into a dimension really only understood by those who have entered into it.  This isn’t meant to infer that one doesn’t have to be in the physical or mental in daily activities but is, upon close connection, one who has reached a point beyond any fear of seeing oneself as ‘everyone’, and exposing ones ‘self’ completely to those who are also in this rare dimension.

To melt naturally into existence with no barriers is to lose an illusion that nearly everyone walks in, oblivious to the reality of their divine nature.  Dating back to the ’60’s, scientific studies were done on the effects of the psychedelic drug LSD ( Lysergic acid diethylamide).  Drugs like LSD or anything not within that alters experiences is not permanent and potentially damaging.

Deep meditation and/or achieving that same blissful, calm, inner joyous state through deep love as a form of meditation can, create an inner space of a self realization that follows one through the challenges of life. This state wipes clear all attachment to perils of memory that influence a behavior limiting the ability to experience love on a dimension that is always consistent in all situations. All needs of what’s commonly known as ‘a god’ or savior in belief systems dissolve.  The ‘higher self’ absorbs the highest emotions and converts them to a ‘cosmic like consciousness’ where the being is filled with love whether seen by others or not. Letting go with awareness lifts the ‘veils of self deception’ that billions hide behind.  Arhata

Women are Dorks

March 16. 2010
Dorks because men are clever at lying and playing on their weaknesses!  The ‘future woman’ is still the rare woman even in the ‘so called free’ western world.  Everywhere else, woman is ‘chattel for man’.  Today’s western woman is in transition believing she is free to be as free as a man.  Anyone who believes that is really a ‘dork’, or in other words just ‘stupid’ of what’s going on in the personal, economic, and social world ruled by men – usually with cowardly deceit. Dorks because they believe their men are living on the high road with them in their heart, and no one else.

All, let me repeat, ALL men who are virile, and in a position to hide their sexual lusts, are going to act on them the best that they can, and without total communication with a partner, will lie telling what will make life convenient for them.  Men in most cultures are still animals.  In the western culture, animals dressed and insistent upon being ‘above question’, but the same with ‘colored icing’ on the cake.  Now, men have the ability to lead their lives always in pursuit of their sexual gratification if they can get away with it.
Men on Wall St. don’t just make millions to put their kids through college to do the same old thing if they are male.

Most women still live in a dream world controlled by men.  Women can claim control only because they have what men want, other then that, it’s an illusion.  Humans and the world changes when women become like ‘Buddha’s’.  Women need to own themselves rather than be a slave to the ‘deceptions of man’ to tuck away while they run the roost. Any man who doesn’t communicate fully with a woman who never punishes for any honesty, is no higher than the animals mass produced for the appetites of the non caring consumer who looks for the bargain that satisfies his thirst.

Consciousness is a word that means little to humanity that seeks to fill the belly of their wants as quickly and effortlessly as possible.  Everyone’s guilty of never doing enough to change the situation in this current world of ‘never seen information and technology’. At the current pace, this whole human race can change this dilemma in a hand full of years but is likely headed ‘in toto’ to a complete burial of the humans now occupying earth. Hatred, ignorance, false love, and refusal to elevate consciousness of the self and others is epidemic. Home is where the heart is and, it’s time to spend quality time there!

Arhata
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March 15. 2010
Living a life in a ‘soap opera’ to support a life style that is a ‘grandma’s cookie cutter’ style smelling of robot odor, is to live life with blinders on.  There’s an ‘eject button’ on everyone’s life throughout life. If you’re one following the ‘cookie cutter life’, would you like to watch the film of you life for millions of years on the other side? The experience might be that if you see you led a life of giving love from your heart to yourself and others, there may be more exciting adventures much sweeter than coming back here. If you primarily led a life of ‘self denial or hatred’, or one that essentially was ‘material’ – it’s back again until you get it.

Careers are ok for starters but soon become ‘careers to avoid’ knowing who you really are apart from titles for the ego game.  Who you really, are and what purpose you may have to give back, in thankfulness, for the betterment of the world, needs time.  Time to stop, reflect, and let the inner grow.  Success is societies illusion to keep your nose to some grindstone to keep you in the ‘clog’. Some people are meant to be ‘lights for the world’ and, not just workers regardless of status.  ‘Lights of consciousness’ live for the passion of love of themselves and others.

The ‘Bohemian’ in consciousness, lives a life in search of inner meanings for themselves, and as a guide and inspiration to those coming out of the dark of the ‘cookie cutter machine’. The ‘bohemian’ is not against material benefits but places them far back on the agenda of loving a life of celebration of harmony.  The bohemian finds comfort among the artists, poets, writers, and general bohemians of living a conscious, joyful life.

A 25 year old female friend from the Middle East ‘upper society’ is living here having escaped being a ‘chattel’ of a male dominated, female abusive society.  Her passion is to start informing as many as possible from her country of the necessity for women’s right to live a life free of ‘slavery’ by men’s rules.  She is willing to live a life of a bohemian to dedicate her growing wisdom to a cause making it a more conscious. loving world.  That is a ‘divine career’ far more useful than sitting on a ‘freeway parking’ lot going to work for some corporation while having to pay for gas, car usage, insurance, special clothes for work, stress medications, and infinite other non necessities to maintain societies ludicrous image.  The ‘bohemian life’ is the best life to live to the fullest.

Arhata