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September 25, 2009
Love (?) has an expiration date!? As the flames of love turn to embers and, frequently to cold chunks of black, perpetual meaningless drama enters to fuel the memories hoping that the dead embers renew their spark. Insecurity and concern over the safety of money and investments become the endless priority to keep the ‘unprepared for marriage’, shackled in chains.

Limited, conditional love turns into a sinking swamp void of loves growth. The elements of love need be nourished. Always pay attention to self love first then, communication, agreements, empathy, compassion, sensitivity, patience and, every positive element known. Love of deep value, doesn’t come and stay because people are ‘entitled’! If one had a very loving childhood love is easy IF, one is with someone also having had a loving childhood.

All drugs, past and present including ‘meds’, are likely to ‘chain’ one to ‘love with holes’ that never allow love to fill the heart. All bad habits as well as having a love for any belief systems, dampen the full expression of love. Love is a delicate phenomenon and needs freedom and nurturing for survival instead of ‘non attention’. Love that becomes superficial takes on anti-love characteristics that exemplify themselves in a myriad of ways. Love, if it’s authentic, never ceases expressing itself especially to those who have been close or, if not, the self love is weak.

Love of self and, those closest to you, can be measured on a ‘numerical scale’, lets say from 1-10. Ten being the highest and, always under all circumstances, unconditional. Without serious meditation, what ones past has been with the quality of love, will always be the same unless it has, in the past, reached consistent peaks of expressions. For over 20 years, I’ve created and used a ‘quality love analysis’ based on a numerical system which has been very accurate. Love is always ‘self love’ and will resonate high if one is in great self love with themselves and, meets someone else in the same space of self love. The most difficult part of the love path at this point in time, is finding that someone(s)!

September 23, 2009
Fairy Dust is that unseen ‘force’ that turns people into ‘believers’ of anything that ‘hooks’ into the mind. Today a ‘teeny chip’ in a small device can transmit a particular choice from thousands of songs for our pleasure. Had a friend who just returned from being a ‘sniper’ from the Afghanistan War who said he was trained to hit a human target 2 miles away for the kill. We have the technology to send a missile hundreds of miles to hit a target (ie., building) with the push of a button. ‘Belief’ in anything without proof, regardless of trust or faith, is ‘mind control’ and, humanoids with few exceptions ‘believe’ in anything that serves their purpose of protecting them from truths that they are not prepared or are too lazy to assimilate into their lives.

‘Fairy dust’ does cause the mind to disperse memories into a fog within a short time. How many days can you remember, like you can yesterday, a year ago? A traumatic even sticks in the mind forever. Even wonderful events leave a jagged picture in the mind for years. But, who can remember exact words the next day let alone years later particularly if one wasn’t there to hear them? Billions of ‘believers’, on this modern edge from prehistoric times, think they can do it on ‘faith’ and blind believing, as if it’s some ‘supernatural power’!

If man survives into the next centuries, he will laugh at the ‘so called modern man’ and his ‘beliefs’ of ancient dribble from holy books supported from the mouths of ‘medicine men’ calling themselves ‘preachers, rabbi’s, religious clerics, saints, popes, etc. People want to believe what’s best for them to deal with, even with the trusting wife of the husband who philanders about.

Consider the ‘fairy dust’ that clouds the questioning mind of millions of Americans when it comes to the planes flying into the World Trade Centers on September 11, 2001. Few will not remember where they were at for their whole life but, few will put the pieces of possible illusion together even to ask themselves why was it that someone was filming at 7 something in the morning of the happening and, how long did it take to get those pictures to the networks who in our minds transmitted them instantly? Why did one building, 47 stories tall, collapse ‘pancake style’ without a plane hitting it, in 7 seconds? ‘Fairy dust’ clouds the mind with few exceptions into an oblivious state of believing that which most seems to be believed by others. Letting go of the nullifiers of discernment happens through open mindedness to question in awareness. See through ‘smoke and mirrors’!

September 22, 2009
Kill the Buddha on the path if you should encounter him, is a famous saying meaning to get Buddha out of the way of one’s evolvement. Kill Jesus is something never said as it might be taken as offensive when in reality, it’s all perception and, imagination. Those who really don’t ‘get it’ are judgmental and fragile while certainly fearful of anything said here! Jesus is a ‘code word’ having NOTHING to do with the literal interpretation of his ever having existed in the biblical story.

Clinging to the biblical story is certainly a barrier to seeing the ‘Christ light’ within or, better said, seeing the beauty of who we really are. Millions of innocent, immature people have taken the story ‘literally’ and even supported it by miracles that happen in their lives ‘as if someone wouldn’t otherwise experience miracles’!! I can personally testify that my experience of miracles continues to expand each year especially the recognition of past and present ones. Clinging to a ‘false interpretation’ of the actual physical existence of a Jesus is to ignore what ‘religious scientists’ have uncovered recently to disprove that without any question.

The ‘code meaning’ of the word Jesus is to ‘convert’. Convert the negative, be they illusions or reality that causes suffering to the ‘positive’. To convert into the ‘catchers mitt of Christianity’ is merely a technique to encourage people to step up to the plate of awareness of following a path of love, prayer and, meditation. People who have ‘no clue’ or direction in life need a ‘stick’ to steer them into a direction of ‘seeing the divine’ and who they really are and how to create a positive purpose in life.

‘You Are’ the Buddha, Jesus and, the Christ when letting go of who you think you are which significantly consists of others who don’t know who they are’s opinions of you or, one’s that you perceive they are thinking. Jesus is a ‘code’ word for transforming and ‘converting’ negative into positive and not what gets beaten into fearful, unquestioning heads!

September 20, 2009
Intelligent women might look to be part of a stable of a conscious, loving man who is in the position of reasonable wealth and, who is open to ‘spread his good fortune’ also. Hugh Hefner, founder of Playboy Magazine and an empire emanating from Beverly Hills in Los Angeles, has many women over the years living with him. Hugh Hefner is very happy. He is perhaps an extreme role model for what many men and women should be open to consider in their life plans.

Surely, ‘one on one in deep love’ is a model to emulate but, they are rare and, few and far between. During these ‘transitional times’ of changing roles of males and females, it makes common sense to seek answers outside of the box that society sells, of two people living happily ever after with a ‘diamond ring’ and promises of ‘heaven on earth’. A woman can be as happy with a man of means as much as the truck driver. It all comes down to the spirit of consciousness. Better to love a man while other women do too, than be saddled with a ‘one horse pony’ who makes you part of a humdrum existence ‘til death finally do you part’ and, worn out having done the same old thing generations before you did, unsuccessfully.

Any woman in consciousness and, riding the ‘high plains’ of life deserves the best. Finding an open rich man is far easier than finding one not that is ‘committed to love and consciousness with openness’! I have not seen any but a sliver of evidence to the contrary. Once the ‘biological ardour’ reaches its level of reality, few will find it the ‘nirvana’ they once had (if they did) and, it makes sense to seek it for inner happiness.

LIving with a man and multiple partners requires mutual commitment, understanding, communication and, compassion for each other’s welfare in that moment and, for the future. A man who enjoys the benefits of more that one live in partner certainly owes the ‘openness’ to that partner to have the opportunity to have positive friends on the outside. It’s just a matter of loving oneself that creates the inner security and compassion to be open. It’s important to have an agreement to always look out for the others welfare even when the arrangement changes. Deep friendship is a key. If you live in awareness and, from your heart, the possibilities of ‘life arrangements’ are limitless.

Swallow.
September 21, 2009
Truth is medicine for the whole ‘belief’ circus that shrouds the earth espoused by the progeny of ‘out of the woods ancestors’ a few years back who knew nothing of modern devices, including toilet paper! The ‘belief people’ are Christians, Muslims, Jews, Hindu’s, Voo Doo’ers, and all cults. The children of yesterday are now in adult bodies slobbering over untamed sexual and greedy needs occupying most of the earth regardless of formal education! They are led by ‘sheep herders’ who call themselves various titles of a religion who, humbly by action, place themselves closer to a ‘fictional description of a marketable definition of a God. (Atheists are either naive or ignorant and in their mind)

Truth is irrefutable! Belief always comes with doubt, often from purported knowledge from others but, certainly not ‘knowing’. Humanoids are led as children to ‘believe’ in Santa Claus, Easter Bunny, Tooth fairy, etc., then the preachers take over with belief in ‘recycled religious garbage’ from other times, in other lands, where the same myths were told ‘til they reached the ‘holy land’ and Mecca for control of the masses. ‘THIS’ is not a belief but, irrefutable evidence is being more and more released into the mainstream. The media, politicians, and, religious sheep herders are blocking release of those ‘truths to dispel beliefs’. In addition, swallowing beliefs are those billions of programmed, naive, busy people who live in fear of the truth. Ironically, the truth is far more blessed, as truth always sets one free from the ‘lies’ of beliefs that are pounded into sheeple to believe and have faith in.

Truth is, that bright light in the sky that’s visible most days is called the ‘SUN’! Any belief system questioning that, is ‘nuthouse’! You know it or, have forever been blind but, still you feel it and, smell it’s effects on the earth. Some call it ‘the Sun of God’, except ‘god’ is a belief and, refers to something not even remotely like it’s real meaning which has no word!

Life is ‘harmonious balance’, without it there is no life as we know it. The sun, moon, and, stars are in balance, giving us the exact formula for life, but not enough to wake people up to see beyond the comfort from fears that techniques called belief, faith, and trust which, in another usage, do have merit but, not in this one! Truth is! Belief is a ‘lollypop’! ‘Truth’ is not in the popular, common usage’ the last few decade’ of serial sayings of the words ‘love’ and ‘I love you’. They are often no more than ‘BELIEF’! Truth ‘explodes and implodes’ beliefs! Truth is!

September 19, 2009
Had a friend who sold ‘space’, the imaginary kind that is dreamed up in the head. In other words – ‘Nothing’! Takes a lot of positive talk. She sold corporate Madison Avenue advertising. People Magazine and Vogue – one a popular ‘rag’, the other all about ‘illusion’ for women. Neither amounts to anything but inconsequential entertainment. Lots of ‘talk stuff and nothing substantial’ that improves one’s life.

Jane was Ms. Positive – always up for the public. Had a good ‘gung ho’ rap -’ I’m goin’ to do this, I’m goin’ to do that – things are great – fantastic. Except for ‘advertising sales’ it was all ‘smoke and mirrors’. Then she moved to ‘Tinsel Town’ – Hollywood, shortly after I left NYC too for Los Angles to sell more illusion, which if it pays the bills of a nice lifestyle and, doesn’t reflect itself in missing a ‘down to earth reality based life’, is fine.

Lots of ‘positive talk’ about achieving this and that while allegedly working on bad habits that never seem to go away is ‘talkie – no walkie’! There is nothing more important than a ‘you’ who is ‘spit shined and polished’ for smooth interaction in life, with others, possibly a mate and, mostly oneself. We all have a garbage bin in the brain that affects all the rest of us from the feet to the genitals, heart, throat, sight, hearing and, ability to convert all of life to an action that reflects consciousness. That ‘garbage bin’ collects information especially from childhood and, unless emptied of the ‘attachment’ to troublesome memories, they become suppressed in there and, no matter how much ‘lipstick’ goes on, that part of the brain, it’s still a brain with a live, smelly garbage bin.

There is NO climbing the mountain of consciousness beyond a certain level if one hasn’t ‘let go’ and emptied that negative stuff which follows one to death and….beyond! Saying this and that to make one feel good is puttin’ lipstick and perfume on the things that need serious attention to start living a life with ‘a little slice of heaven’ about it. Everyone can ride above the negative’s of the past even when it hurts and scratches on the journey – that’s just releasing Karma!

September 18, 2009
Atheist are stuck in the brain and, reluctant to let their heart be involved in seeing beyond the starless sky. ‘God’ believers may be stupid but, they usually have the heart open be it with fear of the unknown and, ‘love unleashed’. The brain is usually defensive, drugged, ignorant, and/or fearful. The heart, uses that brain to keep it guarded from the unknown, like ‘abandonment’.

Both atheists and ‘god lovers’ are rolling fantasies and illusions in their heads while in ‘full charge mode’ to defend their position without common sense appreciation of that they may have the completely wrong perception. Everyone seems to be quick to say they know what love is but it’s like looking up at the world from inside a box – the experience is very limited. God believers generally start in youth and just never question what this ‘god’ really is instead living in suppressed fear of this alleged ‘boogie man’ in the sky!

During my 12 years of doing ‘free speech displays’ on the Venice Beach boardwalk, always those claiming to be atheists would stop by and assume that I was one of them because I challenged the believers in religions calling them ‘deluded’. Mostly, they were male and often a bit ‘nerdy’ as they seemed thrilled to think I supported their ‘brain delusion’. Au contraire, mon frère, ‘I’m too busy considering how to have fun waking up the ‘religious boneheads’, to see the beauties of finding the answers to life by opening their hearts and minds together to see beyond the veils of deception.

The wonder of seeing the ‘falsities’ of life through waking up is that there are veils beyond veils to reveal mysteries as ‘aha’s’ but. hidden from those not willing to look beyond their noses. As children, we are given answers to questions that children everywhere have curiosity about. The answers need be simple for undeveloped minds but, they are the same answers given the parents as children except for the obvious fairy tales that become understood by 8 or 9. The one’ fairy tale’ continued for the ‘busy with other things’ mind is ‘what’s it all about and why am I here’. That ‘fairy tale’ is erased with self love and openness. The answers are always blowing in the wind! Religion and atheism may work like a ‘stock car’ with half it’s cylinders running in a championship race but…..!!

September 16, 2009
Getting too sweet on Jesus affects ‘sex life’, however, there is always viagra or cialis (with warnings)! Men and women might think of having sex with Jesus in the middle! Perhaps make it a prayer! One can be Jesus and the other Mary? Or, does bringing Jesus into the ‘conjugal bed’ create impotence? Leaving love out of sex over a prolonged period of encounters will dilute the experience, particularly for the female.

Bringing love into sex is a good idea but, is bringing Jesus into it also a good idea (or mohammed)? Scripture of course is a no-no, at least in Christianity. My experience with open minded jewish women is that never does Jesus enter into the picture except occasionally at a certain moment to yell ‘JESUS’! I’m a bit unfamiliar with Muslim women but, do they scream ‘MUHAMMAD’ or, ALLAH? Or, who do the Chinese yell out? So much to know when we get out of the box of thinking our ‘little world’ is the only world!

Diet food and beverage is just a gimmick to make money and to stay competitive. Doesn’t take a mathematician to figure out that 1/2 of American adults are overweight ‘a lot’! After decades of trillions of dollars spent on ‘weight loss’ fads and ‘diet this and diet that’, fat is epidemic – it’s really been the ‘devil’ and, not what was promised! As Hitler said, ‘repeat a lie often enough and, it becomes accepted as the truth’. People are numbed to look into the real truth of origin and ‘follow the money’!

Weight loss advertising of methods and products as well as ‘religious hype’ of a savior or messiah is very similar and, good money making gimmicks for the gullible or, the general population who are skillful enough (they think) to keep the ‘fantasy’ going, so help them god. Rarely does anyone examine the few who have escaped diet religion to find truth beyond the dogma. The 21st century, finally, is the century to have a ‘new world order’ of consciousness and truth leaving behind the ‘quick fixes’ of ancient religious lies. No ‘but, but, but’s’! Diet’s are band aids as are religions. Seek what God really is, and not the common ‘dumb down version’!

September 17, 2009
The power of the negative is the ‘demon of illusion’ that controls one from seeking answers in the light of the direction that serves the blessings and truth that always await . It’s important to stop and, try to work one’s way through the quagmire of the swamps of life. As in the great movie ‘Network’ where the actor Peter Finch, playing an extremely frustrated newsman, yells “I’m mad as hell”, there is a time (NOW) to stop, change directions and, move toward the answers!

The ‘negative’ is a ‘quick sand’ of life and, all love’s treasures. The mind that has accepted the negative as ‘all of reality’ is in delusion. To be deluded by the negative is to consistently convince oneself that all is ‘useless’ and, maybe it’ll change tomorrow, at best. Nothing is going to change unless one changes directions toward the light. The ‘light’ means to check out all the positives from minor to major that move one in a new direction.

Patience for results from the change of direction is critical. Rare is that which changes overnight. The ‘journey’ on the new direction needs to be looked at as fun and exciting by rewarding the mind with the affirmative feelings of each small step, even when no results seem apparent. Progress usually happens invisibly until one day the ‘light’ seems more visible.

Don’t just ‘believe’ changes can be made, ‘know it’, because it’s true and, others are living proof. Let vision and hope be a catalyst to move you in the new direction but, be open to the reality of what comes and turning it into advantages, be it even a negative barrier. Accept the ‘negative’ as a means to use for answers to convert to a positive direction. The ‘negative’ comes as a challenge to overcome, so face it, use it, convert it into the positive. The choice is one of two – accept negativity or, ‘accept only the positive while, not ignoring the negative’! Use the ‘negative’ to fuel the positive and, that it too is a teacher.

September 15, 2009
Once man learns how to control his urges toward satisfying his needs with the female as his means, then there will be little need to control a woman. In the interim, everyone needs to examine themselves compared to taking the highest choices in all aspects of life. Humans attract who they are and, strangely seem to forget or, not even recognize and, take responsibility for that.

The majority come to the ‘plate’ of coupling with ‘dangling problems’ from childhood as well as parents who also did and, ad infinitum. Life lived from childhood all around school and achievements frequently ignores the ‘school within’ that needs to see who each are as well as why they are who they see themselves as. At 18, the doors to the mysterious and unknown world before one, begin to open where each begins where their parents were a few years earlier with different circumstances but, in a newer world of evolving availability of answers on how to make life the highest experience imaginable.

It’s easy to unconsciously slide into the artifacts of centuries ago behavior that gets passed on without correction for greater clarity. People slide into fitting others perceptions of ‘best life’ while those, generally only ‘walk the talk’ that’s just ‘talk’ with no demonstrable reality of that ‘gibber jabber’. It’s also easy to cling to negative happenings of the past for a life time without really understanding ‘why they happened’ and ‘why’ all blame needs to be reexamined for truth and positive ways to use earlier happenings to increase compassion and benefits for the moment and future.

Males and females are more similar than not at the heights of consciousness. Separation occurs when, on the one extreme, people revert to damaged and unrepaired beings that they accept forever without seeing that ‘change’ leads to ‘working as it should be’. More than not, it’s change back to where things originally ‘changed’ from the precious beginnings – ‘back change’ to where ‘change’ is no longer necessary other than adapting to new ‘outer changes’. The ‘control’ is for each to experience a more clear and enjoyable picture of life.
Arhata