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April 29, 2009
Plastic Roses, cheap perfume and a ‘sceptic tank’ full of problems is meant for a short romance and, not a marriage! Those not in the flow of consciousness only bring ‘unconsciousness’ and goodies that have a short ‘fresh’ life span. A one to 10 week trial, unlicensed marriages, void of creating little ones, should be in vogue. The majority of ‘smitten by love’ lovers are only meant to enjoy the moment then, with empathy and compassion, hit the road!

Eternal romance is only for the ‘pros’. Street ball games are rarely destined to be anything but, left in the ‘hood’. Micro love fun is good if one or more is on ‘rocky’ grounds with themselves. ‘Fixer uppers’ are far from guaranteed to end up being any more than a ‘shack up romance’. Always be willing to be open to see that romance must best be a mutual experience to treasure before ‘reality sets in’. Special friendships are more valuable than coupling gone sour.

Prancing down the ‘yellow brick road’ is a short journey for the ‘unprepared’. “The term “septic” refers to the anaerobic bacterial environment that develops in the personal elimination ‘catch it’ tank decomposing or mineralizing the waste discharged into the tank. Periodic preventive maintenance is required to remove the irreducible solids which settle and gradually fill the tank, reducing its efficiency” Humans work the same way! Most are not so fortunate to be ‘hooked up’ to the ‘clear love line’ but, by doing the necessary ‘maintenance’ can automatically find themselves ‘hooked up’ to the ‘love zone’.

Personal imaginary ‘septic tanks’ for unneeded emotional and mental challenges are available to anyone making the decision to explore ways to experience inner ‘refuse removal’ making way for the energies that wait at the door always. The secret is blowing in the wind, and it’s ‘air’! Practice breathing deeper (called meditating). Love is in the air, in fact, air IS LOVE!!

April 28, 2009
A bubble brain might be one who in this ‘economic challenging time’ finds their assets approaching ‘start over time’. Living in a ‘bubble’ that pops unexpectedly because of one’s forgetting to ‘squirrel away nuts’ in a safe place for the coming economic winter, is karma and the ‘divine’s’ reminder that the real riches in life don’t fit into a pocket, particularly someone else’s!

‘Intentional suffering’ is a spiritual path even if it was unintended from the start but, the result of a bursting bubble. Stupidity is free as well as it’s opposite and yet so is investing in the inner bank with it’s many qualities of ‘love and awareness’. We are not our ‘assets and trappings’ that can be bought by any ‘drug dealer’ or slum lord. The ‘toys of consumption’ are barriers to seeing the inner qualities that we all possess. ‘Consumers of unnecessary consumption’, poor or rich, unknowingly create a repelling magnet around themselves, pushing away people who value ‘inner riches’ over the material world.

Slaving away to make investments for the future that may or may not come, is usually void of ‘paying attention’ to life’s beauties of ‘smelling the roses’ of life. Death is the leveler of all pipe dreams and ‘bubbles’ that may be fun, albeit not void of stresses, but a reminder to not miss the joys that seem so elusive. It’s far richer to be a philanthropist of giving love than accumulating material riches for that ‘wonder day’ that’s likely a bubble.

White chocolate strawberries and key lime pie with whipped cream can be had even by those that value the pearls of inner life with modest awareness of keeping one eye on
the rational comforts of life. Perceived needs are often sought because of unresolved traumas and insecurities traceable to a bumpy childhood. Be a pioneer and work through the forest of lies to find the clearing that shows the better way! (stream of consciousness)

April 27, 2009
‘Swine love’ happens with a person regarded as brutish, contemptible or generally offensive. They are often cruel, disgusting, or ‘unpleasant’ frequently pushing beyond the limits of trust. Swine love is of epidemic proportions everywhere! People need be tested and dealt with appropriately! A ‘swine’ spreads the aforementioned problems and more, particularly when coupling with another and, even passing the ‘swine disease’ to offspring.

The ‘swine lover’ is often a charmer hiding demons as he is exposed more frequently.
It is suggested that one wear protection, be it a condom or enough self love to avoid unnecessary contact. Those who attract ‘Swine love’ have an ‘acquired immune deficiency’ to be susceptible to lower carriers of the ‘malady’. Carriers are people who have enough ‘self loathing’ to have frequent moments of self doubt about who they are and why life seems to bring more bad news than they feel they deserve.

‘Swine love’ begins with a feeling of euphoria and excitement followed in a few weeks or months by feelings of depression, confusion, and assorted negativities.. Occasionally signs are not shown for perhaps several years. Cures are very obscure and seldom found to totally alleviate all traces of the wounds or the contagion that persists for mostly a lifetime, resulting in a sad death.

‘Swine love’ is an ‘emergency’ and, is best to be attentive as soon as the first signs are
exhibited. The best idea to to stay alone, isolate yourself as much as possible and avoid all kissing, and physical contact. Strangely, hugging, hand shakes and smiling have not shown to be problematic! Swine love moves from generation to generation and possibly has been around since ‘Adam and Eve’.

The cure starts with ‘deep self love’ that, given help by others, actually can spread around the world minimizing all fear of pestilence and personal tragedies. Too much Pork?? No pearls before swine!

April 26, 2009 All I want to do is to have some fun. The party starts wherever I am or go. Rainin’ on my parade in reverence to who you think you are, to nurture what no woman or man would enjoy for over a fortnight, brings out the ‘guru’ to set you straight! There is no freedom in the room of insensitivity and non compassion for the godliness of others. All meet eye to eye but for those who spread their unthinking ways. Everyone becomes the Guru to the one who profits by self indulgence at others expense.

Be a ‘garbage man’ and take out your own garbage of the mind! Recycle the good things and discard the rubbish. Clean the temple of the mind and heart daily until it becomes self cleaning. Everybody does it to themselves and need be mindful of not littering others domains. Always use the ‘litter box’ and don’t forget to empty it to maintain a fresh heart and mind.

Give up the bad habits that others see and, create a new you that appeals to the mind and heart of the conscious. Flush the toilet, put down the seat and don’t forget what the female mind ignores, the lid! No cigarettes that drug up the mind and contaminate the beauty of the temple you enter. Drink only as God would drink, not as the Satan pretending to be above the foray. Life is a dance and, a little instruction is good for those that seek to learn how the dancer can become the dance. To dance with a partner impervious to the partner that needs you for the melody and tune is to abuse the synchronicity of the moment. Open up the mind and feel how free one can be then, let the heart follow to create the ecstasy that awaits. Life gets fogged up with complications that need not be.

Your best quality is the silence that you bring into every room, not the noise that is not invited in. To be mindful of the spirit of love every where is to be next to godliness. The ‘guru’ of the loving self desires not to be placed into the position of having to be the guru to any one else. The only guru is love and awareness in action.

April 25, 2009
‘Brain drains’, known as stimulants, have become more popular for millions to have a ‘cocktail’ of alcohol and another brain drain, such as Methamphetamine, popularly known as meth, crystal, speed, or ‘ice’. For the non user who is generally ‘naive’ about people using this hellish drug, much confusion arises as to who is an abuser and, a covert user. Hitler has been said to be a user of a form of meth as well as many of the Nazi’s to give them a false sense of power and euphoria.

Methamphetamine enters the brain and triggers a cascading release of norepinephrine, dopamine and serotonin. It is highly active in the mesolimbic reward pathway of the brain, inducing intense euphoria, with high-risk for abuse and powerful addiction. There are many signs of meth use including paranoia, feelings of grandeur, fear of closeness and intimacy, violent behavior, thievery, quickness to anger, infinite fears, denial, denial, denial and any negative thing imaginable. The user is VERY discrete in using this ‘cheap’ drug so as to appear quite normal but, a little to a lot different than usual.

Although females are known to use it, primarily men are the purchasers as well as users and, distributors. Having had a ‘Spiritual Center’ from 1991-2006 in the ‘hood of the drug capital of the US’ (Venice Beach, Los Angeles), my naivete about all drugs slowly disappeared over the years that had fooled me infinite times as to why many had such ‘aberrant’ behavior. I learned that drug users were very ‘sneaky’ in their addictions. The phrase ‘One bad apple will spoil the rest’ turned out to be somewhat correct. Those who were weak would succumb to a ‘charismatic’ drug user easily. One individual (and many are very likable…until…), was an ex Yale educated, Corporate attorney for a major NY Wall St. firm that had been a very important account of mine – like many, he seemed quite regular until his ego was challenged and then the ‘monster’ came out. He was in and out of jail.

False euphoria and thinking you are like a Messiah are trademarks of this ‘wonder drug from Hell’. Always, it comes with the territory of unresolved issues from childhood that
festers over the years until the illusionary ‘speed’ trip helps to speed past the ‘garbage yard within the head. To the user or one who’s abused by them – stay away!!
Years of meditation are a ‘godsend’ and necessary to correct the ’hell course’ to a more positive life.

April 24, 2009
…Is the only time that you can count on – ‘the present’, hence this is the time to speak the word of appreciation and sympathy, to do the generous deed, to forgive the fault of a thoughtless friend, to sacrifice self a little more for others. Today is the day in which to express your noblest qualities of mind and heart, to do at least one worthy thing which you have long postponed, and to use your God-given abilities for the enrichment of someone less fortunate. Today you can make your life significant and worthwhile!

Today is the start of all the tomorrows that lie ahead. Today all yesterday’s misfortunes can be canceled. It’s a new dawn and a new day – a reset button that can cancel all
attachment to unhappy memories. Memories of the heart can be converted to deeper appreciations of those moments filled with love. The ‘closets’ of yesterday can always have a window to bring in the fresh and bright. Memories can and will be friends to light the way through life.

Life and it’s mysteries of love are always by your side to bring in to change and, light up any darkness that may slip in. Only a fool can’t see the truth that brings many blessings, but for allowing the feeling to be inside. The greatest gift is in the moment even when challenges seem to be all there is. Each of us ‘rules the world’ that is ours to do with as we wish. The ‘crowds within’ are ours to manage and have work for the happiness we deserve.

‘The winds of change’ bring in the quiet breezes to the cleared air and blue skies. Fresh starts are always a moment away and, ‘right now’. Loosen up, let go and invite in the friends of life that nurture each moment. ‘Right Now’ is the divine gift that blesses the open heart and mind. Oh…and, dump that which troubles the ‘right now’!

April 23, 2009
You’re not crazy (that’s optimistic), just a little bit ‘challenged’! Since the lights came on, more and more over the earth during the past few decades, individually and collectively, are exposed for what they’ve always been – essentially ‘crazy’! Now that all the doubt is gone about that, those who don’t see it (or hardly), are the craziest.

Take it easy, loosen up and let go of the unnecessary baggage rotting in the mind. One of the ways the ‘baggage expresses itself is in people that are ‘fat’. Denial is a protection of ‘justification’ to keep the mind intact. It’s called being ‘challenged’, at best.
Man has accumulated and inherited all the ‘junk’ of the past without really realizing it. It’s past time to stop pretending to be who you think you are. Mistakes have been made but there’s no reason not to escape the shadows that haunt the mind unceasingly looping over and over.

Always one has to stop and slowly begin to see that we are accumulations of other peoples opinions and, our own self condemnation and experiences. Life is like a fantasy in surreal time but, why not make it a real fantasy that works and releases the challenges that seem endless. Time has run out for excuses that do nothing but encourage the craziness. The air, wherever you are, is ready to take all thoughts and make them disappear, but for your postponing the choice.

All are given the seeds of ‘free will and choice’ at birth to germinate into a full Buddhahood or Christlike being. Challenges to the mind are just that, ‘challenges to learn from and overcome moving on to greater visions. Be a bit ‘challenged’ and ‘consciously crazy’! (Stream of Consciousness)

April 22, 2009
A person who is a stupid incompetent fool, fathead, goof, goofball. Put another way, a person who says they hear common sense but, continue to do stupid acts. These people need lots of love and,… patience! They live on habits that are anywhere from amusing, annoying, to criminal. Warning to do-gooders who look to save the world, be warned that these ‘cuckoos’ defy all reason and are compulsive, obsessive ignorers of ‘sound, well intentioned advise.

One cuckoo ‘caregiver friend’ was a compulsive thief and had spent several years, twice, in a penitentiary for ‘hand-a-note’ bank robbery. Upon his release, I frequently gave positive counseling along with his parole officer to this nice looking 38 year old, particularly on the virtues of being free and living near the sunny paradise beach in Los Angeles. Always in full agreement, he several weeks after his release robbed a local Citibank and was caught after his escape at an Arby’s fast food across the street! He’s currently half way through his 10 year sentence.

On the amusing end, I have another friend who always is in panic about her lost keys, credit cards, etc., and, regardless of advise to always keep them in the same place. In most ‘cuckoo cases’, drug or alcohol damage is behind it, otherwise it’s unresolved traumas. Often the ‘unresolved trauma cases’ never act on good advise, are, among other ‘flaws’, obsessive-compulsive eaters, even obsessive vegetarians. The key is to send them tough love and keep them at ‘bay’. These are poor relationship people!

The cure for these ‘cuckoo’s’ back on the road to reality and common sense, is always a simple decision to use their ‘power of will’ with awareness and ‘ownership’ of their ‘loonies’. Them seeking love with another is futile. Start with years of meditating techniques and follow a path of self evaluation. Life is sweet….when one remembers!

April 20, 2009
Men are kids who grow into ‘doggie kids’ then, commonly, into adult bodies to continue, ‘til death, as dogs. They are clandestine sniffers of females to use for pleasure.. Females rarely understand how most males think about their male sexual needs. The ‘male exception’ to this can be trusted in all cases even, as they reject covert use of prostitutes, porno or, cheating.. Men who have matured are fully transparent. Always beware of the less obvious man who has little ‘opportunity’ to be a dog and is seen as ‘above it’!

Males who can be just friends one on one to a female, need to identify them as ‘sisters’ or, those who are beyond the female need to be in fear of physical male approach. Sisters are ‘safe’. Women are always fearful of a male’s motives unless fully transparent and compassionate, always it’s a woman’s instinct for survival and protection of her natural ability to reproduce, as well as being loved for herself. Women need ‘conscious’ men to protect her from ‘male animals’, who happen to live everywhere one looks, especially in most countries that treat women as 3rd class.

Females need acceptance as human beings apart from any concern for ‘male coming on’ against their wishes. Undeveloped man can be like an animal that leaves a ‘scent’ that seems to paralyze some females for his assent to overcome her. Charm for selfish reasons is an unconscious technique that actually plays on the weakness of ‘’female neediness’.

Strong love for self and rising beyond ‘unresolved issues’ from childhood, become an automatic ‘sensor’ to ferret out men using ‘primal animal instincts’. Females shine best when they can feel comfortable to be vulnerable. Fear of men and fear of what’s lurking in the dark are unnecessary. Love is a light and has nothing to do with sex necessarily. When woman becomes free from fear of male control, the world will finally change….and, not until. A ‘sister’ is a friend to like and love with full transparency of safety for all aspects of her.

Yesss Self Love Center

April 19, 2009
Females are basically STUPID! I have proof! Either they have a man in their life, are endlessly wishing for it or, had one and are still envisioning a ‘Hollywood’ hunk with money and endless love! They are typically almost as stupid as the Muslim men who think there are 72 virgins in heaven waiting for them after they blow themselves and other innocent people up for some ‘pedophile’ Messiah who is purported to have lived in the 1300’s and married a 9 year old!

Today most men are pirates not unlike the ones from Somalia who chase ships for ransom on the high seas all for chasing an unwilling non-virgin on the mainland who’s stupid enough to succumb, even if it’s not common rape! Few men today don’t look to command their catch of loot to satisfy imaginations of their biological needs. Two legs up in the air is behind every man’s lurking smile with few exceptions – animals dressed in fine fabrics whose ancestors only a short time ago hunted for their livelihoods while using leaves to wipe their butts (toilet paper is a recent invention as are flushing toilets – duh, you need to remember that!).

There are millions of females who have been, are still, or will be prostitutes of one kind or other in America alone. Some are prostitutes for one man and others are serial prostitutes. Many are bitches producing the ‘sons of bitches’ who rape others for their own pleasures to be. Neanderthals are in male and female bodies, disguised as human beings unworthy of being considered as conscious beings.

Pirates steal – all pirates are men! Wars are fought by men, men rape, men steal your cars by the millions, men loot, men do good to cover up the abominal deeds that lurk in their dark side. ‘The conscious’ are ‘god’s exceptions’ and, hope for the future of ‘peace and love’. Men steal your heart and, so do the ‘men’ that haunt the brain in women! To steal the treasures of your life by spending it with one of these ‘oh, but I love him critters’ is the ultimate stupidity when having two dogs is so much more fulfilling! They give ‘unconditional love’ and receive it! At this point in human development, it’s the better choice! (stream of consciousness)