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Old School Dildos By Sultry Saint

Religious dildos are for females who seek to deepen their connection with themselves and their ‘godman’ or Messiah. Most don’t realize that they are doing one of the most powerful meditations, although, not as penetrating as deep love making. To move beyond the mind into the dimension of feeling is pure religiousness.

Dr, Susan Block in the ’90’s introduced many varieties of dildos, some representing animal penis’s and others representing religious figures. The ‘jesus dildo’ is particularly sensational to imagine copulating with Jesus and moving deeper into love with him. All across America, women have found the dildo at one time in their life to be an interesting substitute for real male-female connection.

Like male use of ‘internet porno’, it has limits, however, is capable of bringing one far deeper into the heart and oneself. Fantasy that harms no one is perfectly acceptable yet more of an escape than not. Other than deep meditation, there is no substitute for deep all consuming love making. Fear of going as deep as possible is common. All attachments to religion and the Messiahs slowly fade into unattached memory when the peaks of ‘godliness’ are reached with a partner. That experience is generally scoffed by those attached to the limits of what they have experienced, primarily because of a combination of ego and common ignorance.

For those fearing or, unable to enter into the divine depths of where angels only tread, sticking with common sexual arousal is acceptable. Those who are Christian, Muslim, Buddhist, etc., need have no guilt for using a Jesus, Mohammed, or Buddha dildo – it may well create a greater closeness and if ones male partner doesn’t equal or surpass the experience, it’s time to exchange the ‘dildo with two legs’! Celebration is a birthright!

Yesss Self Love Center

Est. 1991

ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

310 880-2020

Port Townsend, Washington USA

Happiness Streaming

Some day, sometime, something’s going to make you wonder where ‘happiness’ has gone! You will wonder why one has to be here and endure events that had better be avoided and, never happened. To know joy, the opposite must be there to draw a contrast and resonance.

What unhappiness was created by our own misjudgments and which are beyond our control? How much does our lack of self love have to do with how we react or respond? Would a world free of all negative, stop the rain that falls and yet create a desert that becomes our worst nightmare. Should sunny days never have nightfall and, every action have no consequence? Can we eat and drink to our desire without ‘something’ that draws a line of unhappiness? Is unhappiness just a challenge to allow us to reach deep within to see that awareness and love of self, make life bearable and provide answers not only for ourselves but, experiences to share with others for their benefit?

There is no mountain high enough nor any valley low enough to keep the possibilities of finding some way to overcome what is presented before us. Down in the heart is always the idea of hope for an answer that paves the way for the sun to come out and show us the way. With the sun comes shadows. Lying to oneself because of misfortune is to put one into a frozen space on the ladder of life. Always happiness awaits even the most bleak moments,

No door is every closed, it’s just looking for the key within that unlocks the breezes of new moments but, now with a deeper feeling of wisdom. Discarding happiness when unhappiness comes in is to forget that most of the word is ‘happiness’, just undone to present another opportunity to flow with the river of time and it’s many beauties to be seen. No matter what you think and feel, there is always a new dawn of hope and direction coming. (stream of consciousness)

Yesss Self Love Center

Est. 1991

ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

310 880-2020

Port Townsend, Washington
Sarasota, Florida

Setting the Bar

Copyright February 15, 2009
…Higher….or lower. If the ego is too high, or too low, it’s time to stop, take a deep look at where one is and then, begin the journey of reseting the ‘bar of false illusion’ that is causing unwanted feedback, especially from those who are cared about. Not seeing the self, as one would who does, is rowing against the tide.

Living up to always being higher than the real you is akin to attempting to climb Mt. Everest in hiking shorts – waste of time as much as wearing a parka at the beach. All ‘physical’, be it money, looks, achievements, etc., are just ‘extras’ with little meaning for the real you, which can continue for one’s whole life even at 100. Setting the bar too high is ultimately a slippery slope with out the ‘net of knowing oneself’.

‘Knowing and loving oneself’ is the net for survival under all conditions. Life shifts and changes at any moment and certainly as time marches on. Those who’ve built a strong foundation of ‘love of self’ have ‘set the bar’ exactly where it should be. Life is not a fool. The fools live in life thinking that they are BIGGER than life.

The ‘professional adviser’, to make better investments, is given to everyone as they mature in age, ‘inside’. And, free! Religions, self help books, gurus, are merely ‘tip givers to move beyond them’ and realize that all the answers were always inside. Buddha left his wife and new born child at 29 to set out finding the answers to life. Around a dozen years later, having found answers, he returned. The wife wasn’t very happy having been deserted and all for a vision that didn’t need going anywhere.

Love sits right here, right now, waiting for one’s full participation and sensitivity beyond all the ‘low and high bars’ that one so erroneously challenges himself and others with. Simplicity and practicality, with eyes wide open, finds love, light and joy when the ‘bar is set’ just right.

Yesss Self Love Center

est. 1991

ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

310 880-2020

Port Townsend, Washington USA

Copyright February 14, 2009

‘Let there be victory’ – Jai Ho! The ‘slum dog’ people of India live everywhere in the world and, mostly in the ‘minds of billions’, not withstanding those who suffer in physical poverty! A secret confession to oneself about the state of real affairs within the mind, will likely reveal ‘positivity in poverty’, be it rational, emotional, or spiritual. Like the children in the ‘slums of India’ who run and play with joyful smiles, any adult can declare their own ‘victory’ within!

Slum dog children are not the only ones that can circumvent life’s dreariness and seeming futility. Everyone who breathes is entitled to reach within and find the best tools to deal with whatever is presented. Negative behavior is debilitating to the spirit of not only one acting like the ‘slum dog’ but those who come into contact. The ‘domino theory’ where unsocial behavior finds it self leaking into others lives, spreads itself.

Stop and, reverse loss of hope and positive feelings. Losing is attacking oneself with no escape hatch to the higher elements of feelings and consciousness. Always seek to reduce that which doesn’t work for a life of enthusiasm. Each step in life is harder than it need be when the ‘blocks’ are not unblocked to absorb nature’s wisdom of joy within.

Seek the ‘feelings’ of joy and hope. The same energy of despair is where the energy of all the good feelings reside but for opening the heart and awareness tucked away ‘hidden in plain sight’. The time of the playful child, oblivious to whatever conditions, is always ‘right there’ waiting for the moment when one is willing to say, ‘jai ho’! Victory is overcoming the obstacles within that hide the blessings of good cheer. (stream of consciousness)

Yesss Self Love Center
Est. 1991
ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com
310 880-2020
Port Townsend, Washington USA

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(copyright February 20, 2008)Behind the ‘8 Ball’ is having 8 kids in one fell swoop!  No yoga, mediation and romantic walks in the moonlight!  Global warming is better identified as ‘global weirding’ with one strange story after another manifests itself on the news.  A California single woman has 6 kids in a 3 bedroom, 1500 square foot house and, gets pregnant through ‘artificial insemination’. It’s her parents home and, 3 of the kids have disabilities!

Meanwhile, millions of 4-8,000 sq foot homes have been built in the past 15 years for 2 people and, perhaps a child.  In the late ’90’s, I began to notice hundreds of new ‘mega houses’ in Los Angeles built in exclusive neighborhoods. Taking walks to marvel at these ‘castles’ it became apparent that rarely was anyone visible on the streets while blocks away, the homeless were with homes on their backs.  Homes have become houses or, better said, ATM machines to what’s called ‘flipping’ for profit.  Homes without a soul become ‘vacuous houses’.

‘No one home’ has become a trend with millions who live life occupying a body that seeks pleasure through fulfilling desires that are lust and greed driven.  Funny that those two of the ‘seven deadly sins’ are the dominant ones of the male.  Strangely, with the advent of artificial insemination and ‘sperm banks’, men are no longer needed!  Perhaps they unconsciously know that other than their bankroll they are disposable! This leads them to show their ‘manhood’ through buying expensive toys to attract ‘objects of lust’.

Taking time to love and meditate is ‘smelling the roses’ to nourish the home within. All the money in the world will only put one further from home base.  On the other end is having lots of kids without common sense that ends up only avoiding love of oneself and the romance of coupling.  Time is love – take time, avoid greed or. obsessing over ‘$green$’.

    Yesss Self Love Center

    Est. 1991

    ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

    310 880-2020

    Port Townsend, Washington USA

Hou$e M0rtgaged!

It’s a frequent statistic that one in about every two marriages ends in a divorce. Also, often, bad communication in a marriage leads to miss payments, and the mismanagement of monetary responsibilities can then lead to divorce. The majority of foreclosures are among couples.

Two hundred seventy five thousand foreclosures occurred in the US in January of 2009. That’s equivalent to over a half million people who are out of their homes..  Why? A failure to communicate.  To communicate with common sense is often replaced by emotions fueled by GREED. Spin it anyway one wants to, it’s still greed from the home buyer up to the ‘controller of the money’. Half a million per month is equivalent to the population of a major city!!!!!

If we are to believe media sources, these unconscious ‘wanna wanna gimme, gimme’s’ while trying to wet their appetites, are responsible for the ‘global economic collapse’! Personally, there are common sense observations that ‘outsourcing’ infinite products to other countries to save a buck, are right at the forefront of stupidity to fatten pockets. The US has developed an unconsciousness of ‘entitlement’ and, that $money$ is the end all to problems!   Again, not to be ignored is that over half of marriages end in divorce and, with traumatic economic consequences.

Love seems to be found at fast food McDonald’s and bargain shops like Wal Mart. Love by ‘toys for tots’ is the bargain today for sex and security irrespective of ensuing ‘burnout’. Foreclosure is rampant among minds glued to one or more of the ‘7 deadly sins’.  Foreclosed marriage is the name of the game for those who don’t walk with awareness, compassion and love – all which are free! Wanta leave the marriage but can’t afford to leave the house? Try loving communication …. if you can find it, it works!

                Yesss Self Love Center

                Est. 1991

                                            ArhartaFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

 310 880-2020

 Port Townsend, Washington USA

 

Extreme and uncontrollable anger

Going postal is an American English slang term, used as a verb to suddenly become extremely and uncontrollably angry. If it occurs, it best be a conscious positive release of energy in discerning situations. The term derives from a series of incidents from 1983 onward in which United States Postal Service (USPS) workers shot and killed managers, fellow workers, and members of the police and general public (youch!).

Following this and other ensuing series of events, the idiom entered common parlance and has been applied generally to describe fits of rage, in or outside the workplace like, ?in relationships?. Obviously, all behavior that challenges the safety of anyone is prohibitive. ?Going verbally postal? is ?risky business? especially when not done with total awareness. Going postal may be a human natural behavior as babies demonstrate with unconscious.

One rare example for me happened when I was collecting rent from an occupant a few years ago. The occupant was a 21 year old angry guy who was a hidden ?substance abuser?. When, with great courtesy, approached him, he began a continuing, noncompliant, smart alecky posture, definitely pushing my ?conscious postal buttons?

I had never been attacke before but he came charging at me and, with my previously cracked ribs from a bicycle accident. The incident was surprising and challenging but, was resolved. Mutual going postal and, physical, was a lousy use of anger but seemingly unavoidable. Among other things the lesson was to reexamine all situations that might result in this possible, and misuse of ?one?s best side!

Loving oneself and developing a strong sense of humor, is a protection for all incidents of anger, which of course should never go beyond  verbal ?clearing the pipes?. With children, it?s always off limits. Anger is rarely an appropriate character manifestation however, is best used in complete awareness and, is a great reason why one needs to develop attributes like compassion and self love. Always seek loving situations for they rarely provoke anything but positive experiences.

Yesss Self Love Center

Est. 1991

ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

310 880-2020

Port Townsend, Washington USA

Copyright February 17, 2009

One of you started it!  It’s always the ‘jerk in the box’ who thinks it’s not him. Arguments that engender ill feelings leading to varying forms of emotional chaos, are ignited usually by a ‘serial jerk in the box’ who wherever the go, create the same uncomfortable situations.  A ‘jerk in the box’ has a knee jerk temper that ignores common sense and compassion.

Provoking and/or twisting a situation is par for the course if one could follow with a camera, this ‘fear driven, out of sorts perpetrator of tension’. The antidote to this challenge in life is to stay alert, centered and with compassion that they are victims of unresolved mental and emotional damage likely stemming from childhood.  

I once worked with a NY small financial company as a Sales Executive who’s responsibility it was to bring in ‘deals’ that required expertise care to their completion. The ‘head of production’ was the ‘brains’ behind success or, ‘flopping’, and he knew more than anyone in the company – he was like a god.  Problem was, he was a first class jerk to everyone but the client.  I made it my mission to be the one person who got along with him and, when I did, things worked better for me than anyone else.  His insulting ways turned to a ‘wink and laughter’ as he became a dear friend of ‘mutual admiration’.

The quality of being able to privately chuckle or, laugh appropriately with sensitivity is a tool that serves one well through life, particularly with the ‘jerk in the box’ who consistently starts potential rancor.  A friend begins within and, the deeper that is, the greater the opportunity to convert anyone who is acting like an enemy.  And, use the tools for turning the intermittent jerk into a very special friend. In other words, learn the skills to take the hits without unnecessary reaction and, replaced by positive response.
 
    Yesss Self Love Center

    Est.  1991

    ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

    310 880-2020

    Port Townsend, Washington USA

    Copyright February 16, 2009