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Til Death Do Us Part???

July 23, 2010
Marriage is a road to enlightenment. To ‘tie the knot’ in proclaiming unconditional everlasting love makes sense when people have complete understanding and unshakable intent on loving the other as themselves. Marriage, of course should not be between two people who don’t love themselves unconditionally. Imagine if truth were spoken at vows? “I John do not love myself, but I love you unconditionally ‘til death do us part”! Then the other says the same thing! Strange?!

I know of two people who are dysfunctional alcoholics pledging love for each other. No couple with not either each coming with strong self love, or the evidential commitment to both evolving, can expect anything but a dysfunctional marriage. Should people even bother with a dysfunctional partnership or marriage? Should prospective couples in marriage, that is basically also an agreement with the government for a license, be able to not pass a test to see if they have full understanding of common sense guidelines of responsible love?

Biological love dies on the vine if not risen throughout the being to become as honored as loving the self as much as seemingly possible. The ‘biological love’ is for fun, reproduction, or a doorway to the infinite mysteries of ‘divine love’ which always cares for the other as if oneself. The other must be seen as a representative of god or godliness and no less. Commitment to inner growth and care of each other with open communication is staying on ‘love’s pathway’.

Common sense of ‘loving thy neighbor as thy self’ also applies to whom one has slept with and committed to. There seems to be a universal misunderstanding of the depth of the meaning of love. Today the word ‘friend’ seems to be anyone you click on ‘Facebook networking’. The word ‘love’ seems also to have fallen in value. Endings and proper sensitivity for them, and the welfare of the other is a critical part of love. Therein, ‘til death do us part’ is necessary with common sense, and compassionate expression from the heart, both in dysfunctional partnerships, and of course loving ones. Real love circumvents Karma while the lack of it doesn’t! Hmmm….

Arhata

March 27, 2009

Dogs, cats and, man should have plans available to eliminate indiscriminate pregnancy. Population control is a method of improving the life of any specie, particularly at this point with man proliferating unchecked from just 2 billion people a few short years ago to 10 billion over the next few decades. India alone has 1.2 billion people on a land far less than 1/2 the size of the US and, with no control of the sexual urge.

Apparently, besides a certain type of monkey, no other animal enjoys sex for fun! Sex with consciousness is even a more powerful happening leading to love and it’s possibility of deepening of it as well as the general consciousness of participants. The path of love deepening with conscious sex is one to elevate human kind to an evolution beyond the present state of constant turmoil.

Kitties, puppies, and human babies are certainly wonderful expressions of life, however, enough is enough for the good of the high quality of life. A world where children are the product of a deep and responsible love will be a better world and one that evolves man beyond the crimes and violence that are so prevalent. Religions are against many methods of birth control so as to keep their religion filled with ready made converts. Even nations look to support unchecked population out of ignorance and economic reasons.

Our resources and general environment are being ‘taxed’ from lack of mindful controls to promote a healthier world. The world is running out of control and, will reach calamity soon, after having gone with no controls on population in a few short years. Quantity is not producing quality.

Talk and plans of creating humane and workable neutering of humans (particularly of men who are designed by nature to be motivated for sex in excess of the average female) needs to be happening now. Education about the mysteries of life and love is far more important than sidestepping it to spend a life working for survival while in relationships barely working to bring more children into an over populated world. Control over ‘birthing’ opens a whole new area of better possibilities and, freedom for humanity.

Yesss Self Love Center

Est. 1991

ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

310 880-2020

Port Townsend, Washington USA

March 21, 2009

This whole God-religion business is SHALLOW! Teflon! Words about words, so as to ‘belong’ to a group. On Wall St., men all wear suits and acceptable shirts and ties to make a statement of being part of ‘the group’ that can be ‘trusted’. Same with all religions, except it’s word’s and, at best, a 2 second hug with pats on the back while the men look around for a pretty female that they can ‘mix with’.

Put the ‘god lovers with the atheists’ in one dump truck, sending it out to the local garbage dump and, you’ve got….MORE GARBAGE! Religion is mostly about words. Those who have the words memorized or concepts down ‘pat’, rule the roost while the shallow butts that fill the seats (called pews!) restlessly wait for the ‘bank’ to be passed around for purse and wallet opening time. That’s the ‘let go’ and thank you ‘shallow god’ from one of your shallow devotees!

Real religiousness happens in beds! Sometimes it’s a sick bed, death bed, dream bed or, love bed! It’s where the feelings of ‘godliness’ (apart from all ‘gods’) fills the hearts and spirits of all. There are NO scriptures for it – no bibles or holy books, just love and life with the sometimes frequent visitor called ‘fear’.

The ‘fear’ visitor, often called ‘God’ or Allah is a mind control device to give the believers hope in a fictional, shallow heaven which is a ‘Disneyland theory’ at best. Heaven is ‘choosing’ the best direction at all moments no matter how challenging. ‘Heaven’ reaches down to lift up all. That heaven is the ‘soul of life’ that’s very real and undeniable to everyone. God and religion are words about words that disappear in the great moments of life and living. (Stream of Consciousness)

Yesss Self Loving Center

Est. 1991

ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

310-880-2020

Port Townsend, Washington

1st Day of Spring, 2009

Atheists? Three of the four are ‘illusion based’, living in the shadows of life. Life has infinite dimensions, changes and challenges. Believing in ‘god or denial there of’ is missing the obvious hidden in plain sight – LIFE and, it’s partner, LOVE! No words necessary for the truth, just words to point and express the best direction.

Who would choose god or allah over life and love? God and Allah are puppets of the religious puppeteers to keep people coming to their temples, mosques, and churches, all with good intent but, for all the religions good, abuse of the mind, emotions, and soul are mixed in with it. Religious leaders rarely walk the talk of love and life, instead parroting scriptures long since revised over and over of words never reflective of the highest consciousness anyway.

Religions are primarily for the sick who seem to avoid life and love’s offerings in harmony. Sensitivity and harmony with all, opens up the nurturings of life. Religious leaders are selling what people already have in front of their eyes but for their laziness and insecurities, will follow along what seems to be the path most followed. Religions are a ‘patchwork’ of very different men’s thoughts from different eras each with their own issues. Religions are a ‘creation’ denying the evolution through which they’ve come.

To be free of the ‘polarities’ of religious doctrine, opens the opportunity to find the jewels of being free, authentic, and, finding a happiness that disappeared when submitting to a closed ended religious infirmary. The ‘end of life’ begins with religious indoctrination. The beginning of life starts with finding the sensitivities of the heart used with common sense to find best ways to adapt to life’s happenings and challenges.

Religions take away the need to think and live authentically for oneself. Submitting to an illusion when life and love are always knocking on the door, is to miss the point of our visit here on earth. Choose the truth, avoid beliefs.

Yesss Self Love Center

Est. 1991

ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

Port Townsend, Washington USA

Cover Your Meat

Men in general are scum dogs with wallets. Men go to religious services either to sniff out the ‘menu’, guilt, fear and mostly for connections that are money premeditated. In Islam, women wear a scarf often referred to as a HAJIB which frequently covers all but the eyes. Tradition has hidden the reason for this ‘bizarre’ dress. Simply put, the real reason, going back in time, was to protect themselves from the animal nature of man. Even the eyes only, of a woman in certain repressed cultures, are enough to create urges of rape in the men of that culture.

Those men who are above this ‘hidden abuse’ of women are either rare evolved ones or more likely, homosexual in hiding. As science has of late concluded, a certain minority of males and females are born with a natural propensity to gravitate to their same sex.
In certain cultures, men who have the economic means and power are self appointed ‘caretakers’ of multiple women, thereby making the general proportion of 50/50 male to female population very skewed to leave an unfair proportion of males. The ‘gender rape’ drives these men of a ‘pseudo religious’ culture into ‘hormonal madness’ or, to make them into ‘scum dogs’!

Mankind has only recently, in the last century, begun to evolve beyond eons of living as ‘human animals’ with isolated exceptions, killing, robbing, and raping for carnal pleasures. This ‘gone amok’ behavior has been converted with the advent of technology, into a suppressed volcano that few women can relate to.

Islamic women who lack liberation and not consumed by their egos, see the whole covering of their bodily parts as merely an obsession and protection from their two legged slobbering counterparts. Even prostrating themselves to one man, is a protection from the wild dogs of the street. It’s an ugly scene, but one that promises to cling to its barbarianism for years to come. Self realization and loving oneself happens beyond all religion.(Stream of consciousness/unedited)

Yesss Self Love Center

Est. 1991

ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

310 880-2020

Port Townsend, Washington USA

 

Extreme and uncontrollable anger

Going postal is an American English slang term, used as a verb to suddenly become extremely and uncontrollably angry. If it occurs, it best be a conscious positive release of energy in discerning situations. The term derives from a series of incidents from 1983 onward in which United States Postal Service (USPS) workers shot and killed managers, fellow workers, and members of the police and general public (youch!).

Following this and other ensuing series of events, the idiom entered common parlance and has been applied generally to describe fits of rage, in or outside the workplace like, ?in relationships?. Obviously, all behavior that challenges the safety of anyone is prohibitive. ?Going verbally postal? is ?risky business? especially when not done with total awareness. Going postal may be a human natural behavior as babies demonstrate with unconscious.

One rare example for me happened when I was collecting rent from an occupant a few years ago. The occupant was a 21 year old angry guy who was a hidden ?substance abuser?. When, with great courtesy, approached him, he began a continuing, noncompliant, smart alecky posture, definitely pushing my ?conscious postal buttons?

I had never been attacke before but he came charging at me and, with my previously cracked ribs from a bicycle accident. The incident was surprising and challenging but, was resolved. Mutual going postal and, physical, was a lousy use of anger but seemingly unavoidable. Among other things the lesson was to reexamine all situations that might result in this possible, and misuse of ?one?s best side!

Loving oneself and developing a strong sense of humor, is a protection for all incidents of anger, which of course should never go beyond  verbal ?clearing the pipes?. With children, it?s always off limits. Anger is rarely an appropriate character manifestation however, is best used in complete awareness and, is a great reason why one needs to develop attributes like compassion and self love. Always seek loving situations for they rarely provoke anything but positive experiences.

Yesss Self Love Center

Est. 1991

ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

310 880-2020

Port Townsend, Washington USA

Copyright February 17, 2009

One of you started it!  It’s always the ‘jerk in the box’ who thinks it’s not him. Arguments that engender ill feelings leading to varying forms of emotional chaos, are ignited usually by a ‘serial jerk in the box’ who wherever the go, create the same uncomfortable situations.  A ‘jerk in the box’ has a knee jerk temper that ignores common sense and compassion.

Provoking and/or twisting a situation is par for the course if one could follow with a camera, this ‘fear driven, out of sorts perpetrator of tension’. The antidote to this challenge in life is to stay alert, centered and with compassion that they are victims of unresolved mental and emotional damage likely stemming from childhood.  

I once worked with a NY small financial company as a Sales Executive who’s responsibility it was to bring in ‘deals’ that required expertise care to their completion. The ‘head of production’ was the ‘brains’ behind success or, ‘flopping’, and he knew more than anyone in the company – he was like a god.  Problem was, he was a first class jerk to everyone but the client.  I made it my mission to be the one person who got along with him and, when I did, things worked better for me than anyone else.  His insulting ways turned to a ‘wink and laughter’ as he became a dear friend of ‘mutual admiration’.

The quality of being able to privately chuckle or, laugh appropriately with sensitivity is a tool that serves one well through life, particularly with the ‘jerk in the box’ who consistently starts potential rancor.  A friend begins within and, the deeper that is, the greater the opportunity to convert anyone who is acting like an enemy.  And, use the tools for turning the intermittent jerk into a very special friend. In other words, learn the skills to take the hits without unnecessary reaction and, replaced by positive response.
 
    Yesss Self Love Center

    Est.  1991

    ArhataFreeSpeech@yahoo.com

    310 880-2020

    Port Townsend, Washington USA

    Copyright February 16, 2009